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		<title>Comment on It has been a while&#8230; by Victor R. Scott</title>
		<link>http://thereformedwesleyan.com/2013/04/22/it-has-been-a-while/#comment-809</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2013 16:59:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks Nancy! It&#039;s greatly appreciated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Nancy! It&#8217;s greatly appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Comment on It has been a while&#8230; by Nancy Singletary</title>
		<link>http://thereformedwesleyan.com/2013/04/22/it-has-been-a-while/#comment-808</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy Singletary]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2013 15:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You have been missed here. I appreciate this post. I hope to learn from your information.  

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have been missed here. I appreciate this post. I hope to learn from your information.  </p>
<p>Sent from my iPhone</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Roman Catholic Church, Postmodernity, and Human Sexuality:  The Power of 1,700 Years of History by jimarsenault</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2013 04:42:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i think you are misunderstanding the author on that quote. What he is saying is that the Catholic Church does not ignore sound science. Truths about the human body which God designed are not totally known. The Catholic Church also supports Adult stem cell research. This does nothing but bring us closer to God by understanding his creation better. You may find St Thomas Aquinas works very fascinating to read.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think you are misunderstanding the author on that quote. What he is saying is that the Catholic Church does not ignore sound science. Truths about the human body which God designed are not totally known. The Catholic Church also supports Adult stem cell research. This does nothing but bring us closer to God by understanding his creation better. You may find St Thomas Aquinas works very fascinating to read.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Book Review  &#124;  &#8220;Love is an Orientation&#8221; by Andrew Marin by Athena Brady’s Book Reviews January 2013 &#171; Athena Brady&#039;s Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Athena Brady’s Book Reviews January 2013 &#171; Athena Brady&#039;s Blog]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2013 01:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Book Review  &#124;  Our Last Great Hope by Victor R. Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope my post is helpful to your readers. Thanks for linking to it!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope my post is helpful to your readers. Thanks for linking to it!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Book Review  &#124;  Our Last Great Hope by It Is Impossible To Love “The Lost.” &#187; KEVIN NUNEZ</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[It Is Impossible To Love “The Lost.” &#187; KEVIN NUNEZ]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2013 00:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Book Review  &#124;  &#8220;Love is an Orientation&#8221; by Andrew Marin by The Missional Apostle: A Book Review &#124; Self Publishing Advocate</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Missional Apostle: A Book Review &#124; Self Publishing Advocate]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2013 06:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Book Review &#124; &quot;Love is an Orientation&quot; by Andrew Marin (thereformedwesleyan.com) [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by Victor R. Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:37:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Then I will look forward to more!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Then I will look forward to more!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by kittenmittensjm</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I enjoy good conversation :)

-Sunny]]></description>
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<p>-Sunny</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by Victor R. Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Uncanny! Have a great day and a Happy New Year!]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by Victor R. Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:28:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I totally agree. I am still learning and growing. When our loss is personal and penetrating it has a way of changing our perspective. 

Thank you again for reading and commenting.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree. I am still learning and growing. When our loss is personal and penetrating it has a way of changing our perspective. </p>
<p>Thank you again for reading and commenting.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by kittenmittensjm</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kittenmittensjm]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whoa, on second read, I just realized that Jacob has the same birthday as me, but I&#039;m 2 years older!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoa, on second read, I just realized that Jacob has the same birthday as me, but I&#8217;m 2 years older!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by kittenmittensjm</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kittenmittensjm]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Victor,

It really is the most unique process to every single person because it&#039;s complicated by the complex relationship you had with the deceased. And then, not only do you have to battle your own feelings you have yet to resolve with that person, you must come to terms with having those &#039;unresolved issues&#039; and living with them, with sometimes no resolution. Or, you may have no &quot;loose ends&quot; but question your own grieving process. 

Regardless, grief is way more complicated than it ever looks on the outside, and anyone who says differently may not have experienced a true loss before. That sounds way harsher than I mean it, but I can sincerely say I&#039;ve lost many people before my mom, but I never experienced the same amount of grief as I am now.

Best,

Sunny]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Victor,</p>
<p>It really is the most unique process to every single person because it&#8217;s complicated by the complex relationship you had with the deceased. And then, not only do you have to battle your own feelings you have yet to resolve with that person, you must come to terms with having those &#8216;unresolved issues&#8217; and living with them, with sometimes no resolution. Or, you may have no &#8220;loose ends&#8221; but question your own grieving process. </p>
<p>Regardless, grief is way more complicated than it ever looks on the outside, and anyone who says differently may not have experienced a true loss before. That sounds way harsher than I mean it, but I can sincerely say I&#8217;ve lost many people before my mom, but I never experienced the same amount of grief as I am now.</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Sunny</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by Victor R. Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victor R. Scott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2012 03:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for taking the time to read. I also am grateful for your kind words. Mourning truly is one of the most personal and individualized experiences. It is different for everyone. There is no one &quot;right&quot; way to mourn. The process is varied never the same for any two people. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for taking the time to read. I also am grateful for your kind words. Mourning truly is one of the most personal and individualized experiences. It is different for everyone. There is no one &#8220;right&#8221; way to mourn. The process is varied never the same for any two people. </p>
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		<title>Comment on The Lingering Effect of Death&#8217;s Assault by kittenmittensjm</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kittenmittensjm]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2012 22:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi there,

I 100% agree: Dull platitudes don&#039;t ever help; in fact, they just help make you feel more alone and even less understood. 

I don&#039;t think the pain ever really goes away from a loss; I think it just changes form and depending on your relationship with that person, it can keep evolving over time or simply fade away. It&#039;s always the unexpected lingering hurt that surprises us; it teaches you a lot about yourself and how you respond to (and feel) love, I think.

Love your &quot;there is no expiration date on love&quot;. Thank you so much for sharing.

Best,

Sunny]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there,</p>
<p>I 100% agree: Dull platitudes don&#8217;t ever help; in fact, they just help make you feel more alone and even less understood. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think the pain ever really goes away from a loss; I think it just changes form and depending on your relationship with that person, it can keep evolving over time or simply fade away. It&#8217;s always the unexpected lingering hurt that surprises us; it teaches you a lot about yourself and how you respond to (and feel) love, I think.</p>
<p>Love your &#8220;there is no expiration date on love&#8221;. Thank you so much for sharing.</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Sunny</p>
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